dairy of a gazan resident

December 28, 2008

**disclaimer**

the link posted is about the recent gazan attacks thru the eyes of a Palestinian girl.  what your going to read is very graphic and probably will mentally disturb you for a long time.

I’m speechless.  What state has our ummah come to? Why are we just partying our lives away? why are we living such selfish, self-centered lives? why is it always about me, me, me, and me? what about our families, our community, and our ummah at large?

“The believers, in their love, mutual kindness, and close ties, are like one body; when any part complains, the whole body responds to it with wakefulness and fever.” [Muslim]

WHERE IS OUR FEVER?  how can we, after this happened go back and live normal lives? The least we can do is make du’a. pls remember our ummah in your prayers.



‘Eid Mubarak

December 8, 2008

taqabal Allahu minna wa minkum!

p.s-Organica basically conveyed what I wanted to say here.


I’m horrified…

November 30, 2008

and just can’t get this outta my head. it’s a sad, sad world :(


Perfect days for perfect Ibaadah

November 27, 2008


By: Asma bint Shameem (al-Huda institute)

Alhamdulillaah……the blessed days are here one more time!
The glorious days when rewards are multiplied many times, and sins are forgiven much more…
the days in which Allaah gives us yet another chance to worship Him, to ask for forgiveness and correct our faults and make up for our shortcomings….
the blessed days that the Sahabah waited for and prayed for….
the beautiful days in which they strived long and hard in worship, until they could do no more….

What are these magnificent days?
These blessed days are the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah.

Just like the last ten nights of Ramadaan are the best ten nights out of the whole year, the Ulama tell us that out of the 365 days of the year, these first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah are the best days of the year and the most beloved to Allaah as they combine acts of worship in a way unlike any other times.

The Prophet testified to that. He said: “There are no days in which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allaah than these ten days.” The people asked, “Not even jihaad for the sake of Allaah?” He said, “Not even jihaad for the sake of Allaah, except in the case of a man who went out to fight giving himself and his wealth up for the cause, and came back with nothing.” (Bukhaari)

Subhaan Allaah wal-Hamdulillaah!
What a blessing!

The question is…..what do I do on these magnificent days and how can I make the most of this perfect, golden, golden opportunity to earn rewards and Jannah?

Obviously, Hajj is one of the best deeds that one can do during these ten days. However for those of us who were not invited to His House this year, there are still many, many good deeds that one can do and earn the Pleasure of Allaah.

Some of these are:


1) Fast all nine days and especially fast the Day of ‘Arafah
The Prophet said: “Anyone who fasts for one day for Allah’s pleasure, Allah will keep his face away from the (Hell) fire for (a distance covered by a journey of) seventy years.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
Just imagine…..if you fast these nine days (fasting on Eid is haraam), how far your distance will be from hell!
The Prophet used to fast on the ninth day of Dhu’l-Hijjah and he said: “Fasting the Day of ‘Arafah (ninth Dhul-hijjah) is an expiation for (all the sins of) the previous year and an expiation for (all the sins of) the coming year.” (Muslim)

2) Do a LOT of Dhikr and Takbeer
The Prophet said: “There are no days on which good deeds are greater or more beloved to Allaah than on these ten days, so recite much Tahleel (saying Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah), Takbeer (saying Allaahu akbar) and Tahmeed (saying al-hamdu Lillaah).” (Reported by: Ahmad -Saheeh)

Ibn ‘Umar and Abu Hurayrah used to go out in the marketplace during the first ten days of Dhu’l-Hijjah, reciting Takbeer, and the people would recite Takbeer when they heard them. (Bukhaari)
Takbeer at this time is a Sunnah that has mostly been forgotten, especially during the first few days. So say it in the masjid, in your home, on the street and every place where it is permitted to remember Allaah. Revive the Sunnah that have been virtually forgotten and earn great rewards for doing so.

The Prophet said: “Whoever revives an aspect of my Sunnah that is forgotten after my death, he will have a reward equivalent to that of the people who follow him, without it detracting in the least from their reward.” (Reported by: Tirmidhi- a hasan hadeeth)
Obviously, men should recite these phrases out loud, and women should recite them quietly.

3)Stand in Night Prayers:
Remember the virtues of spending the night in prayer, and its sweetness in Ramadan?! Why not revive this beautiful act of worship during these nights as well?!
Remember, how in the last third of every night, Allah Almighty calls out to us, His servants:
Is there anyone to invoke Me, so that I may respond to his invocation? Is there anyone to ask Me, so that I may grant him his request? Is there anyone seeking My forgiveness, so that I may forgive him? (Bukhaari, Muslim)
Why do we miss this golden opportunity? So, seize the chance NOW and expose yourself to His Divine Generosity and Mercy, ask Him to forgive you and guide you and set things aright. He will surely listen.

4)Make Sincere Repentance.
One of the best and most important things to do during these ten days is to repent sincerely to Allaah and to give up all kinds of disobedience and sin right away because we do not know when we will die, and also because one evil deed leads to another.

But what does ‘repentance’ exactly mean? It means that you come back to Allaah and give up all the deeds, open and secret, that He dislikes…. that you regret whatever you did in the past, giving it up immediately and be determined never ever, to return to it, and resolve to adhere firmly to the Truth by doing whatever Allaah loves.
“But as for him who repented, believed and did righteous deeds, then he will be among those who are successful.” [al-Qasas 28:67]

5) Come back to the Qur’aan
It is time now to dust off your copy of the Qur’aan and return to its refuge.Make it a daily habit, using these 10 days the beginning of a strong and beautiful relationship with it. Read it with meaning, understand it, and then implement it and change your lives for the better, as much as you can. Remember that reading one letter of the Qur’aan earns you 10 rewards. In this way, reading Surat Al-Fatihah,which doesn’t take more than two minutes will give you more than one thousand rewards! This is on ordinary days, so what about these magnificent days! Certainly the reward will be far greater, Insha Allaah.

6) Generally increase in doing ALL good deeds
We should strive in doing more good deeds in general, because good deeds are beloved by Allaah and will bring us closer to Him. So if we are not able to go to Hajj this year, we should occupy ourselves during these blessed days by worshipping Allaah, praying extra prayers, reading Qur’aan, remembering Allaah, sending Salaams on the Prophet , making dua, giving charity, honoring our parents, upholding ties of kinship, enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil, and other good deeds and acts of worship.
“So whosoever does good equal to the weight of an atom, shall see it; And whosoever does evil equal to the weight of an atom, shall see it.”[al-Zalzalah 99:7-8]

7) Get the reward of Hajj wherever you are:
You may be unable to do Hajj this year, and you may feel sad because you are deprived of the great reward of Hajj. But you can achieve a similar reward in whatever place you may be.
The Prophet said: “Whoever prays Fajr Prayer in congregation, and then sits and remembers Allah until the sun rises, then (after a while) prays two rak’as, he will gain a reward equal to that of making perfect Hajj and Umrah.” [He repeated the word "perfect" thrice.] (At-Tirmidhi)
Isn’t that easy, Alhamdulillah?

8) Slaughter an animal and distribute the meat
Ibn Umar said: The Prophet lived in Madeenah for 10 years and every year he slaughtered an animal.” (Ahmad-Saheeh by al-Albaani)

9) Attend Eid prayers
But remember that Eid prayer is a form of worship and we shouldn’t be doing things that are unIslaamic (especially) during these times, such as listening to music, women going out for prayer without proper Hijaab, mixing of men and women, etc.

10) Thank Allaah
One of the biggest forms of worshipping Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta’ala is to thank Him, deeply, sincerely and continuously. After all, it is He who gave you every single thing that is in you, on you or around you. In fact, you wouldn’t even be here if it wasn’t for the Mercy of your Creator. So thank Him for ALL that He gave you, the Islaam that He gave you, the very life He gave you. And thank Him for the chance that He gives you in these ten days, to ask for forgiveness and guidance.

Alhamdulillah, there is much to be gained in these coming days. So make the most of this perfect opportunity offered by these invaluable and irreplaceable ten days. Hasten to do good deeds and appreciate this blessing and make the most of it, striving hard in worship .
“And worship your Lord until there comes unto you the certainty (death).” [al-Hijr 15:99]


terrible blogger

November 13, 2008

Ok, I know I should really update my blog..but i’m so busy! There are so many things I would love to blog about, but do I have time for that? :( I just got done w/ my midterms and the next week is full of classes and quizzes. I’m disappearing for the next two months or so. hopefully then insha’Allah  i can find time to blog in peace. wish me luck! assalamu’alaikum:)


Death

October 25, 2008

Today, 2 hrs back to be precise, my cousin’s husbands’s co-worker passed away from a severe heart attack. He was only 30 yrs old, newly married w/ no past history of medical issues. just a healthy guy who was looking forward to go back to his home country to see his wife and baby girl in a few days. He was at work and about to go for the lunch break..he had no idea that malak al mawt had come to take away his soul..

كُلُّ مَنْ عَلَيْهَا فَانٍ – وَيَبْقَى وَجْهُ رَبِّكَ ذُو الْجَلْـلِ وَالإِكْرَامِ

Whatsoever is on it (the earth) will perish. And the Face of your Lord full of majesty and honor will remain forever) ﴿55:26,27

- كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ وَنَبْلُوكُم بِالشَّرِّ وَالْخَيْرِ فِتْنَةً وَإِلَيْنَا تُرْجَعُونَ

Every soul shall have a taste of death: and We test you by evil and by good by way of trial: to Us must ye return. (21:35)


Dubai’s Airport Terminal 3

October 17, 2008

I’m back, I’ve lots to write on, but for the time being this will do! subhanAllah I’m so lovin this new terminal!! The old ones are fabulous too. Ever since the last time I’ve been to Dubai airport, I couldn’t stop dreaming of working there lol. here are some pics to browse thru.


sick

September 28, 2008

I’m sick, sick, sick. down with cold, fever, earache, throat ache. pretty much all of my face is stressed! I’ve got Eid holidays until 5th of next month. that’s like one of the best things about living in a ‘muslim’ country. I’ll be back after Eid insha’Allah.

p.s- an early Eid Mubarak everyone! :)


It’s that time of the year..

September 6, 2008

…when I’ve to start a new year at college. could I be any sadder? I learned a lot in my freshman year. how to adjust into a new environment, how to stick to my values and beliefs..it wasn’t easy but I guess I’m better equipped to face college now walhamdulillah . I’ve got like 7 subjects in hand +ramadhan. please pray I can balance dunya and deen…insha’Allah. I wont be blogging for a month now. stay good and I hope yall have a very ajr-ful ramadhan! :)


Dear Dad

September 1, 2008

Dear dad

Thanx for supporting our family

Thanx for giving me advice when I need it

Thanx for giving me that loving look

Thanx for scolding me b/c you care about what I do and want to correct me when I go wrong

Thanx for teaching me how to be patient in difficult times

Thanx for teaching me to place my tawakkul in Allah

Thanx for teaching me how to dress like a muslim woman

Thanx for making food for me

Thanx for ironing my clothes for me

Thanx for sacrificing your comforts for our family’s sake

Thanx for refusing to let me leave for school w/o having my breakfast

Thanx for saving me from mom when she tried to hit/scold me (when I were a kid of course lol)

Thanx for asking me to press your head and giving me a chance to earn ajr

Thanx for calling me your little princess

Thanx for calling me up frantically to make sure I’m okay

Thanx for encouraging me to learn and implement our deen

Thanx for making du’a for me

Thanx for loving me unconditionally

Thanx for waking me up for fajr

Thanx for loving me even when I don’t deserve it

Thanx for being there

Thanx for being a REAL man.

I love you